Centr. IN AB/DL Munch
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August 21, 2010
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(Note from LilJennie: I saw this on FetLife.com and thought it might be useful for some people. I hope it is!)
This negotiation form was created by Vamp_Ire on Fetlife.com
Feel free to use and post crediting her.
(not Lady Mae or Mommy Marie)
WARNING: This form is written with sexual, bdsm, and ADULT ideas and language included.
Gender ID: What gender do you want to play? (This doesn’t necessarily mean it is the gender you feel you are or want to someday be.) Are you a transsexual? Are you a transvestite? Are you into gender bending? What does the gender role you want to play mean to you? Do you need a partner to “transform” you into the gender you want to play? If so, does that transformation need to include being “forced” to transform? What do you need in order to feel like you are playing the gender you wish?
Rating: If your play was a movie, what rating would you want it to have? G? PG? XXX?
Name: What do you want to be called in role? What nicknames are okay?
Personality: Bratty? Well mannered? Happy? Studious? Other?
Sex: Do you want sexual contact to be a part of your play? If so, what types: Kissing? Hugging? Frottage? Sexual fondling? Vaginal sex? Oral sex? Anal sex? fisting? Masturbation? Sex toys? Other?
What birth control/safe sex methods are okay for play (if applicable)?
Body image: Are there any things about your body that you want to ignore during play or imagine are different than they are? If so, which ones: size? breasts/chest area? Penis? Vulva? Other?
Language: Will you be verbal or nonverbal during play?
Will you be completely silent? Make sounds (giggles, crying, screaming, squealing, grunting)? Will you make gestures? (pointing, clapping, sign language)?
Will you use improper language? If so, what sort: Baby language/improper pronunciation? (pweeease, no dat mine, want da fing) Improper grammar? (Me goes to the kitchen.) Substitution of baby words for proper words? (binky for pacifier, pee pee for urine)
Will you use a different voice? If so, how will it be different? Pitch? speed? speech impediment? whiney? giggly? bratty? other?
Can YOU use swear words? If so, what type? Childish (Darn doody poop face!) Mild (CRAP!) Moderate (Son of a bitch!) Heavy (Fuck you!) lil’ Porn star (Fuck my cunt bitch!)
Can YOU use body part labels? Childish (This is my whowho.) Medical (This is my vulva.) Naughty (This is my cunt.)
Do you want your language to be: lovingly corrected? punished? encouraged?
What sort of language do you want your PARTNER to use?
Can THEY use swear words? If so, what type? Childish (Ding darnit!) Mild (CRAP!) Moderate (shit!) Heavy (Fuck!) Porn star (I’m going to fuck you hard bitch.)
Can THEY use body part labels? Childish (This is your whowho.) Medical (This is your vulva.) Naughty (This is your cunt.)
Can you raise YOUR voice?
Can your PARTNER raise their voice?
Discipline and/or humiliation: Do you want to be disciplined or humiliated in role? What sort of situations will call for discipline or humiliation? Not listening or following instructions? Being sexual? Not being sexual? Using bad language? Not finishing chores? Other?
Do you want the discipline or humiliation to have an erotic element? Explain.
What sort of discipline or humiliation is okay? Verbal? Affectionate verbal? (Don’t do that sweetie.) Cold verbal? (Don’t do that.) Abusive/threatening verbal? (Don’t fucking do that.)
Physical? grabbing? pinching? shaking? biting? slapping? pulling hair? pushing? spanking? caning? paddling? strapping? birching? enema? diapering? hairbrush? spoon? CBT? Panty gag? Other?
Urination: In diaper? In bed? In underwear? In toilet? On someone? Other? While being observed? Being urinated ON? drinking urine? playing in urine?
Scat: In diaper? In bed? In underwear? In toilet? On someone? Other? While being observed? Being pooped ON? eating poop? playing with poop?
Enemas? How much fluid? What type of fluid? What equipment? Expel alone? Expel while being watched?
Fetish or BDSM elements: Do you want SM or bondage to be a part of your play? If so, what types? (This might take a whole negotiation sheet dedicated to BDSM. There are many online negotiation forms that can help you with this part.)
Is there a fetish material that needs to be involved? If so, what type? plastic? rubber? latex? leather? cloth diaper material? silky slip? other?
Roles: Age range? Baby (0-2yrs old) Toddler (2-4yrs old) Kindergarten Kid (5-6yrs old) School Girl (7-12yrs old) Young Teen (13-15yrs old) Older Teen (16-18yrs old) Can your role be “related” to your partner? (ie..daughter, son, niece) What role appeals to you the most? (daughter, neighborhood kid, student) What role that your PARTNER could play would appeal most to you? (Mother, Uncle, Neighbor, Teacher)
Situations: classroom? nursery? bedroom? bathtime? kidnapping? “forced” (meaning PRETEND to be forced) to do things? other?
Props: What sort of props will help you into role? school desk? Toys? Games? Room decorations?
Underthings: Diapers? If so, cloth or disposable? Plastic pants? Panties? Frilly, cartoons, or plain? Ultra femme or boyish? bra? undershirt? Corset? Crinoline? Stockings? Slips? socks? Other?
Outer clothing: Frilly, cartoons, or plain? Ultra femme or boyish? Dresses? Pants? Shirts? Overalls? shoes? Other?
Accessories: earrings? hat? tiara? bracelet? ring? necklace? ribbons? hair barrettes or ties? shoe laces? harness? pacifier? bottle? blankie Other?
Safeword: What verbal safewords will you be using for: “Getting close to the limit, be careful”- “Stop immediately!”- “The physical elements of this play are disturbing me.”- “The emotional elements of this play are disturbing me.”-
What nonverbal safewords will you be using for: “Getting close to the limit, be careful”- “Stop immediately!”- “The emotional elements of this play are disturbing me.”-
Nature of relationship: What does this role mean to you? Do you intend to be in role only when in scene, or do elements extend beyond scene? If so, which ones? What sort of commitment is desired? Describe an ideal situation in which you’d be little, and how you would feel. Describe your ideal partner and how they would feel about your inner little.
What are some things left off of this list that are important to you?
This file was last modified on August 13, 2009.
