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The AB/DL Code, version 0.1alpha

After seeing GrBear and others use the Furry Code, the Geek Code, the Plushie Code, and so forth, I thought it might be a good idea for us to have an adult baby/diaper lover code, to make it easier to express our likes to each other at a glance.

For those who aren't familiar, this is an example of a "signature code." You go through the list of symbols and assemble a line or two of codes, which you then place in your signature (the four or so lines that everybody sticks at the bottom of their email messages and Usenet posts). People familiar with the code can then look and see what you're into, then email you and say, "Hey, I like X too!"

At this point the AB/DL code is under development. That means that it is very fluid as yet and will probably go through several revisions before it's finalized (if it ever is). These codes are often given version numbers so everybody knows which edition of the code is being used (the meanings of the letters can change). When you use the code, you should state at the beginning of the line that it's the AB/DL Code v0.1a. I'm looking for suggestions of any kind, but especially in the areas of:

Here's a link to my email address so you can send me mail right from your browser:

And yes, to a large degree this is based on ("stolen from" if you prefer) the Furry Code, the Geek Code, various other signature codes, and also the code scheme from the DPF roster.

General Modifiers

These are modifiers that can be used with any category.

Part 1: Your Baby Or Fetish Side

A -- In-role Age

Some of us like to roleplay that we're a different age than we really are. If you don't roleplay, feel free to leave this out, or use !A. Ages listed are approximate.

B -- BDSM role

Some of us are also into bondage, domination/submission or sadomasochism. Nothing wrong with that, but if you're not into it leave it out or use !B. If you wish you may indicate the role(s) you enjoy.

If you do more than one of these, just use slashes. (Example: if you're into being either dominant or submissive but prefer the submissive role, use Bs/d.) Or, if you don't want to "prioritize," just lump them together after the B (Example: Bds).

C -- Baby Clothes

Many ABs/DLs like to dress up!

Add an m after the C if you've made your own baby clothes.

D -- Diapers

Here's what it's all about.

F -- Other fetishes and kinks

OK, so maybe diapers aren't the only thing in the world. If you're into any of these and want to include it, here's how.

If you're into more than one of these, you have a choice. You can rank them from most favorite to least favorite, using slashes (Example: Fj/p/l/i), or you can just lump them all together after the F (Example: Fijlp).

K -- Who you'll play with

Use this code if you want to tell everybody who you're willing to play with, where diapers and/or baby things are concerned. This is not necessarily the same thing as your sexual orientation; there's another code for that later. Loosely based on the Kinsey scale.

First, list your preference:

Next, add the strength of your preference. (Here, x means either m or f, whichever you chose.)

Example: Kf3 means you will only consider roleplaying with females. Km1 means you don't care much, but have somewhat of a preference for males.

If you have different preferences for the "caretaker" or "fellow baby" roles, indicate these with a c or b right after the K. (Example: If you strongly prefer a female caretaker but don't care whether a fellow baby is male or female, use Kb0 Kcf3.)

M -- Messing

Some babies are poopy.

P -- Plush critters

Lots of us love these!

S -- In-Role Sex

Some infantilists roleplay (for example, as a baby). Use this code, if you wish, to indicate what sex you roleplay as. Feel free to use the # ("mind your own business") or ! ("nothing to do with me") modifiers if you prefer. (You may, of course, use the other general modifiers if, for example, you play different roles at different times.)

First, what sex(es) do you roleplay?

Next, how much does sexual activity figure in your roleplay?

T -- Transformation

If some magic or technology made it possible, would you want to become a real baby?

U -- Wetting

Many ABs and DLs like to wet their diapers (or pants, or bed, or ...)

W -- Writing

Some of us have written down our fantasies (or other stories), and some have actually been published!

For those who have made sales, use W+ etc if your stories or books are infantilism/diaper related, W* etc if not.

Part 2: Real Life

RL -- Occupational area

What do you do for a living?

A few special cases:

Add a * after the code if you're trained or experienced in the field, but haven't managed to persuade anyone to actually pay you to do it yet (this doesn't apply to RLU or RL-).

a -- Age

If you prefer, you can use a number to indicate your exact age rather than using one of the approximate codes. (Example: If you're 30, you could use a+ or a30 -- or a#, of course.)

c -- Computers

Since you're probably reading this on a computer screen, there's a good chance you have some familiarity with the technology. Use this code to tell us how much of a Computer Geek you are.

If your rating is at least c, add one or more of the following letters (just after the c) to indicate your preferred operating environment:

e -- Education

How far have you managed to crawl up the academic ladder?

f -- Real-life fetish factor

How far does your infantilism or diaper fetish spill over into your other life? Or, to put it another way, how far do you allow the mundane world to get in the way of the important things in life?

h -- Housing

What sort of home do you live in?

i -- Internet

Add a * after the i if you have your own home page on the Web; make it *a if your page mentions ABs/DLs.

k -- Sexual orientation

If you want to express your sexual orientation in your code, here's how. If you don't want to, you can leave it out, or use the # general modifier to say k#: "My sexual orientation is none of your business!" Once again, this is loosely based on the Kinsey scale.

First, list your preference:

Next, add the strength of your preference. (Here, x means either m or f, whichever you chose above.)

Example: kf3 means you are only attracted to females. km1 means you're mostly bisexual, but have somewhat of a preference for males.

s -- Real-life sex

Use this code, if you wish, to describe the sex (and sex life) of your human persona. As with the in-role sex code, you should feel free to use the # ("mind your own business") or ! ("nothing to do with me") modifiers if you prefer.

First, which sex are you?

If you wish to reveal any details of your sex life, use one of these codes:

By Tom Lee ("LilJennie") -- email

AB/DL code v0.1a: A-/--/--- Bs Cm+ D+ Fdeijp Kf1 M P++ S(i/f/m)+ T++ U+ W+
RLCT/S*/LW*/M* a c(l/m)+++ e+++ f~+ h+++ i*a+++ kf2 sm*

Geek Code v3.12: GCS/S/M/L d- s+:- a- C++ UL++ P+++ L+++ E++ W++ N++ o K w-- M+ V-- PS+++ PE Y+ PGP+ t+ 5++ X+ R b+++ DI+ D+ G e+++ h--- r+++ y+++

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